“You want a break?… Why?” ….”so we aren’t together anymore?”

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Breaks and break ups are two completly different things they can be similar but keep in mind that when your on break with your spouse that YOU ARE STILL TOGETHER. When a person in a relationship wants to take a break, its usually so they can take a while to figure out their next path they want to take, theyre probably frustrated because of the day to day issues that havent been fully resolved. Its not a bad thing and it defineatly isnt anyones fault. You have to be understanding of it . Being stuck up and selfish about it is only going to push them away more. Especially if you truly love and care about them. Now generally while your on break, you take the time to resolve the complicated situation , and continue on but with caution as to not make things worse. Rest, resolve, restore. If your unhappy, take this time to find yourself. Find the things that make you happy without your spouse. Take this time to find stability in your life. To correct the things that need correction, to concentrate on the important things. To take time to better yourself. I guarentee once the few months is over, your relationship will be stronger then ever

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It doesn't A.D.D. up is a blog site about life struggles & the day to day problems we face that we can't seem to understand why exactly its happening. My name is Symone Fullwood, I have A.D.D. , at times suffer from depression & I have a cardiac pacemaker. I love writing & traveling & although I do have my depressing times, I'm a very energetic, nice & funny person :) thank you for reading my blog, hope you truely enjoy it. Comment for specific topic Sunday , or simply whatever you agree or disagree on. Be respectful or be gone. :)

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